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Hypothetical situation

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Hypothetical situation

Postby Cactusjeff on Fri Aug 22, 2008 1:14 pm

I had an odd thought last night that makes me want to pose an Odd Hypothetical situation and I hope that no one is offended by the question because again I am curious on what the community thinks on this. Here Goes

If a man is pursuing a relationship or is going to and Finds out he is dieing is it still right to pursue that relationship or would it be better to sacrifice your feelings and never do anything?
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Postby Samrezzal on Fri Aug 22, 2008 1:17 pm

You find out that you are dying, and we're gonna put some hands on you and cast that junk down!
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Postby Johnson on Fri Aug 22, 2008 10:14 pm

Ha. Well Samuel, that doesn't really answer his question! But yes, we would lay hands on that person!

Jeff, interesting question. Personally, I would say "no" to pursuing that relationship, but I think there are a lot of variables.

1) Does the woman know & if she does then if she is okay with going forward then it might be okay.

2) He finds out he's going to die. So, he has 1 week, 3 months, 10 years, or how long? I think that matters.

I think ultimately that love is about the other person. It's about expressing the most amount of love that you can for that person. So, in my opinion w/o knowing the answer to those above questions, I would say "no". If I want what's best in the long-term for that girl then I'm not going to want to leave her with a big hole in her heart (and a funeral to prepare) in 2 years when I die. So yah, I would have to say to sacrifice my feelings. That sucks, but it is what it is.

And then have Samuel lay hands on you to get you healed!
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